1. Check for Discreet Shipping
   Since it’s an adult product, it’s fine if you live alone, but if you live with family, you definitely don’t want package details exposed. It could be embarrassing if your parents saw it when the delivery arrives.
2. Ask About Freebies
   If they don’t include a lubricant, they could at least offer disinfectant wipes for the toy. You don’t want the toy arriving without any useful extras. That would just complicate things!
3. Pay Attention to the Material
   This is something you’ll be using for yourself, so it’s important to be mindful of the material. Avoid plastic-based toys—they’re just not great quality or feel.

Now that we’ve covered the basics, let’s move on to the real deal. For beginners (and at least 80% of women), I recommend choosing an external toy. Newcomers often aren’t familiar with their anatomy, let alone finding the G-spot, which can be quite tricky.

Even if you’ve had sexual experience, internal toys might not be the best fit. Most women derive pleasure from the clitoral area, and stimulating that part can lead to quick orgasms while giving you full control. Some worry that using toys might make them less sensitive, but as long as you don’t overdo it, you’re fine. Toys are just another way to explore your body—if it feels good, continue; if not, stop.

As someone who works in the adult products industry, I compare various toys and test them out myself. Personally, I use a suction toy. One thing to note: if the suction part is exposed to air, it can be slightly unhygienic. That’s why many products come with storage bags. Since I’m a bit lazy, I prefer to store it away and just use it directly when I want.

These days, I use adult toys to satisfy myself monthly, and I’m constantly exploring new ways to achieve intense orgasms. If I don’t meet the right person, I’ll probably continue like this. Honestly, I don’t feel like I need a man at all.

When I was younger, I worried about feeling shameful for using adult toys. But as I grew older, another worry crept in: what if suppressing my sexual desires was bad for my health? After educating myself on the basics of sexuality, I came to a realization—why does sex always have to involve a man? Isn't it just as satisfying to please myself?

Women’s Concern: Feeling Shame About Using Adult Toys? Is Suppressing Sexual Desire Harmful to the Body?

There’s no need to feel ashamed about natural desires. Properly managing them is actually beneficial for your body.

As for the shame surrounding adult toys, one of the stories we heard perfectly addresses this concern: "We are human, and sexual desire is part of being human. We need to accept that having desires is normal—there’s nothing to be ashamed of."

Sexual desire is a biological instinct. As we age and our bodies mature, our sex drive develops as well. It serves essential purposes: reproduction, pleasure, and maintaining our well-being.

Suppressing sexual desires for extended periods can have negative effects on both mental and physical health. As Sigmund Freud famously pointed out, "Excessive repression of libido can lead to neurosis or sexual dysfunction."

Regular and moderate sexual activity, on the other hand, can boost productivity, increase job satisfaction, and make people more engaged in their work. It also stimulates the release of endorphins, enhancing pain tolerance and alleviating headaches, joint pain, and other ailments.

Everyone’s needs are different. Some women have naturally low libidos and find that not masturbating or having sex doesn’t affect their lives. For other single women with sexual desires, using toys is a safe, hygienic, and enjoyable way to satisfy themselves. Ultimately, what’s most important is doing what feels right for you.

So, whether you choose to use adult toys or not, there’s no need to feel ashamed—listen to your body and prioritize your own comfort and well-being.

My relationship status? Rock solid—I'm consistently single. As someone who's sensitive to sound, a combination of audio and toys can really hit the spot. I don’t feel any guilt about masturbation, and while I understand casual hookups, I prefer solo play for its safety, convenience, control, and satisfying experience.

I’ve heard other girls say things like, "Girls who masturbate are inappropriate" or "Frequent masturbation will make you loose and ruin your sexual experience with a partner." Honestly, that’s just nonsense. On a psychological level, I strongly encourage everyone to ignore the “slut-shaming” voices, whether they come from society or within. We need to accept that having desires is a normal part of being human—there’s no shame in it.

Physically, masturbation has helped me better understand my body and its needs. My sex drive often correlates with my menstrual cycle and stress levels, so by knowing my body’s patterns, I can manage those overwhelming feelings. Plus, it helps me recognize my emotions and any issues I might be dealing with.

Masturbation, in a word, is empowering. It feels good, both physically and emotionally. So, let’s address the common concern: Will using small toys during masturbation affect future sexual experiences with a partner? The short answer: No, your vagina won’t become loose, and it won't change your sexual experience with a partner.

Aside from fears of looseness, some worry that masturbation could reduce clitoral sensitivity. Again, the answer is no. Your pelvic floor muscles and other support structures maintain your vagina’s position and tightness. The vaginal walls themselves are elastic, meaning they can stretch and return to their original shape. This elasticity means that activities like sex, masturbation, or using tampons won’t make it loose.

The only things that can significantly cause vaginal looseness are aging and childbirth.

While it’s true that long-term or intense physical and psychological stimulation can raise your brain's excitement threshold temporarily, this is reversible. Masturbation won’t reduce clitoral sensitivity, so there's no reason to worry about it affecting your sex life with a partner.

Interestingly, when gathering feedback for this article, we found that it’s rarely women who worry about masturbation affecting their sex life. Instead, some men come forward with concerns like, "I can’t compete with a vibrator! My girlfriend’s so used to her toys, she thinks I’m inadequate—what should I do?"

If masturbation has any "downside," perhaps it’s just the perception from outside voices... and nothing more.

Recently, we conducted a survey with our audience to gather insights on the most common sexual concerns among single women. In this post, we’ll answer one key question:

Can frequent masturbation be harmful to your body?

One participant shared that, despite being single for over 20 years, she only became aware of her sexual desires about five years ago. Watching friends enter relationships, she naturally felt envy but remained single due to various circumstances. During this time, she explored her sexuality through masturbation, especially after receiving a female sex toy as a gift from a friend. She found that even after entering a relationship, she still preferred frequent solo sessions, seeing sex as a comforting outlet when love wasn’t available.

Her main concern, however, was whether frequent masturbation might harm her body.

The answer? In moderation, no—it actually has several benefits!
First, it’s important to normalize self-pleasure. From childhood, humans seek pleasure in different ways, whether it’s through sucking on a pacifier or other sensory experiences. By the time we reach sexual maturity, masturbation becomes a healthy and beneficial activity. It helps us understand our bodies better, improves sleep quality, and stimulates the production of estrogen. During masturbation, the body releases dopamine and oxytocin, both of which elevate mood and can relieve feelings of depression for up to 24 hours.

Additionally, a study published in the journal Society Open Science found that women who engage in sexual activity weekly—whether through intercourse, oral sex, or masturbation—have a 28% lower risk of early menopause compared to those who are sexually active less frequently. Even women who have sex at least once a month have a 19% lower chance of entering menopause prematurely compared to those who have sex less frequently. This suggests that, for single women, moderate masturbation can actually help delay aging.

However, the key concern lies in the word "frequent."
There’s truth to the saying, "too much of a good thing." While masturbation has many health benefits, overdoing it can have negative effects. Since every individual’s body and sexual drive vary, there’s no universal guideline for how much is "too much."

Masturbation, as a form of physical activity, can take a toll on the body. Some women may experience fatigue, back or abdominal pain, or even light bleeding after intense sessions (the latter often due to uterine contractions, which is usually harmless if the bleeding is less than menstrual flow). Without proper hygiene, there's also a risk of infections like vaginitis or urinary tract infections.

However, the good news is that about 70% of women can regulate their masturbation habits and maintain a healthy balance. As long as you feel physically comfortable and are mindful of cleanliness and protection, masturbation is unlikely to cause significant harm.

In short, moderation is key—so enjoy responsibly!

The only problem I foresee is that she may seem dated when they come out with robot escorts. Never fear: as most principalities don't recognize civil unions between humans and inanimate objects, leaving her for a robot shouldn't be much of a hassle.

Sex dolls are known to be incredibly passive, so even if your temper is a bit sharp, you'll never have to worry about quarreling. As they have introverted dispositions, the burden of conversation may often fall on you. Your future sex doll wife will adore your taste in music and television.

Of course, high end sex dolls can run pretty expensive. Think of this as a dowry. Additionally, it is unlikely her family will pay the costs of the wedding.

I spent ages looking for the right one, but I settled on a sex doll called Julie from a company called Eastfay. I went for this one as she has this goth look that I love and Eastfay had the best price and I liked how friendly they were.

Anyway, I was not exactly sure what to expect, the site talks a great deal about real feel skin and stuff like that and to be honest, you can tell that it is not real skin, but it is pretty damn close, probably as close as you can get. I was actually surprised as I thought she was going to feel like rubber, but that is not the case at all, she feels great and as I said, I do not know what material they could use which would get you closer to that real feel.

I would not say that her private areas feel exactly the same either, but they offer you a very real sensation if you get what I am saying. All of her “areas” felt amazing and I think that they and her actual skin are close enough to the real thing, that when you are in the moment, it feels as real as it can be.

As someone who spent a nice chunk of change on his sex doll, I can hand on heart say that I do not regret my decision one bit.

Obviously, we are the sellers of dolls. We have the best and most realistic dolls in the world.

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Well, they have a lot of very practical functions.

For example, when making love, you can feel the body temperature of a real person, or you can groan in any position you want!

Obviously, she's the perfect partner for sex! by my troth!

However, in reality, it can not replace the real human beings. Because she likes to be passive, she won't take the initiative to say love to you.

Maybe people once dreamed of having a very realistic robot friend, but now technology can only make the appearance of love doll infinitely close to human beings, and they do not have an active soul.

If you are sick and need to be cared for, a good interpersonal relationship may allow you to get help from others and tide over the difficulties, while love doll can't take care of you.

But if you're strong, you just don't need sex, and you don't want a complicated relationship, I suggest that love doll is a great choice.

Finally I wish you find true love

There are different types of dolls. The best ones are the silicone ones from https://eastfay.com/product-category/sex-dolls/  according to the answers from . There are many dolls to choose from, and you can customize them any way you like.

Maintaining a relationship in today's world is not an easy thing. Many people get fed up with everything they have to, and they turn to a doll for comfort. There is nothing wrong with that. Dolls are getting more advanced and human-like. To be honest, it's hard to find a difference between premium dolls and an actual human.

Unleashes creativity - With dolls, you can explore your feminine side and make fantasies. Its not just about sex. Style, fashion, movements, make up, etc. can all get you extremely excited. This is technically not a “sex doll” but i turned her into one because i found her stunning.

I made her custom lace red lingerie before i had her give me a personal lapdance. I imagined her having a playful flirty voice. I imagined her saying all the right things. She was thick, curvy, and extraordinarily beautiful. I was extremely excited beyond belief! My heart was pounding and i was panting while i was doing her. Everything - from the foreplay to the orgasm was out of this world! I’ll never forget it!

My experience with dolls is really intense! A doll that knows what you love, knows the right words to say, and knows how to dress without you telling her is super attractive even if its in your head. It feels great being able to have any doll you want no matter how gorgeous for the right price.

Intense experience - If you want incredible, strong sexual experiences - sleep with a doll. Dolls made me scream in bed. Some doll owners said dolls felt much better than the women they slept with.

Sex dolls are built for sex - People make dolls, especially for sex. Dolls can have tight vaginas for max pleasure. Women don’t unless you’re fortunate enough to find one who does. Because dolls are inanimate objects, they can give you oral sex nonstop. Of course, dolls can’t give you the warm moist experience people can give you but i feel there are more pros than cons. I asked my friend what he preferred - nonstop oral sex that’s not warm or warm moist oral sex with breaks. He preferred nonstop oral sex. Dolls are always available for sex. There's little to no compromise with sex dolls

No stress or emotional problems - When you sleep with dolls, you may change. You may stop caring what people think of you, belonging to a crowd. and looking to impress women to have sex with them. Some people get very concerned when they learn i’m a grown man and still single haha.

● Having a high sex drive, but no partner

● Having an addiction to sex or porn, but no partner

● Looking for a companion

● Being sexually adventurous

● Wanting to feel different sensations

● Wanting to enhance their play time

● Having a sex doll or doll fetish

A sex doll can be a great addition for any of the above reasons, and more. In fact, many men argue that having sex with a sex doll sometimes feels even better than the real thing.

The Pros of Buying A Sex Doll

Now is the perfect time to talk about the advantages and pros of buying a sex doll. Not only because of all of the things mentioned above, but also as a means to open up a dialogue and hopefully remove any negative feelings surrounding this kind of sex toy for men.

So, what are the pros of buying a sex doll?

● When you buy a sex doll, you cannot contract nor spread STI’s

● When you buy a sex doll, you cannot get (someone) pregnant

● When you buy a sex doll, you don’t have to use a condom

● When you buy a sex doll, you get the real-feel of a woman

● When you buy a sex doll, you can enjoy all of the physical fun anytime you please

● When you buy a sex doll, you don’t have to deal with emotional issues

● When you buy a sex doll, you can have your own special kind of companion

● When you buy a sex doll, you can customise the doll to look exactly like the woman of your dreams

● When you buy a sex doll, the doll will be a virgin, which is a turn on for many

● When you buy a sex doll, you can fulfill your wildest fantasies

● When you buy a sex doll, you can perfect your techniques

● When you buy a sex doll, you can practice self control

With that, we’d like to mention that owning a sex doll is definitely something unique to the buyer. We encourage you to do your research and to buy the sex doll that suits your needs and preferences.

Whichever sex doll you choose however, be sure to keep it clean at all times, especially those that are made of TPE material, as it is not porous and thus prone to the spread of bacteria and mold.